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wHY don't I just keep my mouth closed about stuff! This girl I liked allot that i've only known - or better said - been friends with for like 3 weeks has had 2 and a potential 3rd boyfriend in this short time frame. Shes only like 13 or 14. I asked her if I could tell her something and she said Sure...I said that she needs to slow down, she hasn't even been writing for 6 years let-alone talking and such about love and dating and can't be alone. I see I wasn't in the wrong at all...She told me to "F" off and logged off or blocked me. I feel bad but I don't think I should apologize as I just told her what I had thought. How can you apologize if your not being honest about it...She had said a few days ago she really liked me. I told her I couldn't go out with her cause shes a bit to wanty for me. She wants to go out to movies, games, eachothers houses etc. Lord knows I'm not like that nor do I have the money...Should I apologize? I know shes going though a rough time with her dad moving out and such. He has missed several of her games cause he was out drinking, but I have no idea what to do...I don't want her to hate me, but I don't want her to think I say sorry when I say something that I mean as I don't do that...help!

thanks
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if there was room for another God, and Almighty was ok with it, He would pick me because I'm just that darn good

Ahhh to be young again Rolling Eyes

LOL... calm down... lets see if I understood

You know a girl who is about 3 yrs younger than you... no biggie... 3 yrs is nothing... try 10 - lol

Fine... she is "wanty"... in your terms... as you don't have the "means" to "entertain" a girlfriend.

You said that you explained why you can't... and yet she still does not or will not understand.

Be-careful Wwe... there is a thin line between liking and pleasing a person.

However, rest assure you have been sincere to her in saying you have no means to "entertain" her and if she goes out with you is because she wants to be "with you"... and the paraphernalia should not be needed.

If she has not understood this... it means she is still too young for you and she still has more to grow up.

Lol.. does this help dude?!

(forgive me... I am extremely tired tonight)
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"Spirituality is not religion, religion divides people. Believing in something unites"

WOW Sam you must be really tired lol...The thing was I told her she is only 13 or 14 yearsold an....let me start by saying this : She thinks that the only way to be ahppy is to have a boyfriend. So she asks out like a different person every week, For one I don't want someone thats been with 4 guys 3 different times. i told her shes only 14 or 13, and havent even been writing for 7 years yet. Slow down as you don't have to go out with someone to like them. I will not go out with her even more so after I said this she went off a loop and blocked me. I did apologize lastnight when she unblocked me but she didn't accept it. She's imature. If all my friends did what she did for what i did, I didn't even tell her everything I thought of her. They would hate me lol.
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if there was room for another God, and Almighty was ok with it, He would pick me because I'm just that darn good

Got ya now Wink

and yes... I totally agree with you... and I think you figured it out all by yourself and you did a splendid job!

The kid does have some issues though... anyway, at least you now were you stand in all this
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"Spirituality is not religion, religion divides people. Believing in something unites"

She wouldn't even talk to me today in class. What ever I guess. She can get in line with the other people that don't like me lol...Happens, can't please everyone. What still gets at me is the fact I even told her that what I was going to tell her she wouldn't like and she still told me to tell her. She obviously don't know me well lol...If her dad wasn't the cop at school I would tell her some more stuff, but I don't want to have higher authority over me and being held over me more then what I have to.
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if there was room for another God, and Almighty was ok with it, He would pick me because I'm just that darn good

This is our receint convo I tried having with her on myspace to maybe get her to talkt o me again...

What I said:
Hey, What's up? Dd you go to the game last night - if there was one?

What she said back
brandon i told u before to stop talking to me...that was freaking mean what u said to me....im sorry i want to be happy and have a life unlike u!!!!!!!!! i am not scared of relationships like u r

What I just sent her.
Well...I didn't mean for it to be mean. I do infact have a life, and my life is very valuable - it may not seem like I have a life but I do. It's not my fault you get offended to easly. I'm not scared of relshinships, I just have allot of other stuff to worry about and want to make sure I have the right one. I only want to be with ONE(1) girl. I don't want to have to go though the process of getting hooked on a girl then her break up with me because I say something she didn't like or something. I didn't think you would get offended so easily. I guess now I know I can't say anything that's on my mind to you or never could because you get peeved over it.

If you think I'm not mad then your wrong too. I don't like that language...I don't like that language, nor do I use it. I have a more broad vocabulary then to have to turn to the "F" word. You are a church goer and you should know what the bible says about Lukewarm christians. If not look up: Revelation 3:14-19

It talks about people who are Christians and still use language and say they are Christians and what not...In a brief they make him "puke" - or spu out his mouth.

At any rate you can continue to be mad at me. For one it's not solving anything and not hurting anyone. I've since moved on and like a new girl who actually likes me for my broad and straight fourth opinions.

i've apologized and tried to be nice to you as best as I can. You took a minor comment of me saying : and I quote"your only 13 or 14 don't worry about finding love you have barely been writing half your life. It will find you don't worry so much about it." You act like I just told you to go to h--l or something which I would never-ever tell someone. At any rate what ever, have a good life being "happy"

WOW is she mean lol...I honestly don't like her at all anymore as of this moment. I'm so glad I didn't go out with her like Sheila told me on MSN. I could of went out with her and found out how she really is...I hope she responds mean again 'cause I got some more to tell her. I may also have a gift for her pc Wink

...I'll show her, she will need a brand new one. My unce that got me into programming has a thing on a disk he wrote several years ago to burn up there pc or what ever, I'll find a way to get it on her pc and run it...I prob wont but still sounds good lol.
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if there was room for another God, and Almighty was ok with it, He would pick me because I'm just that darn good

Well Wwe,

I don't have much to say to this... but this too shall pass... yes it will pass over... in a couple of months you guys will totally forget about this... you might even forget about each other... and yes... lucky thing you did not go out with her.

Now this thing about frying her computer... has made me have mix feelings... I so envy kids these days with all the technology you have at your age... I did have a computer... but it could not do much when it came to homework... much less did we have Internet... now my other feeling.. is gee... with what you just said about frying computers... talk about the new way to getting revenge Shocked

Anyway... I know you will not fry her computer... remember revenge is also a no-no in God's eyes - lol - I am sure you know that Rolling Eyes

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"Spirituality is not religion, religion divides people. Believing in something unites"

LOL, I know, it's rather intesting what you can do to someone. I wont do anything to her P.C. but I will probably let her know that I can do so. Maybe find a way into it and leave her a note Wink

...My step father did that for our neighbors when they didn't have security or something. He made a notepad file and told them how to set it up lol...

I should of did what my pap said to do and not talk to them make them talk to you. Don't let girls on to how you feel or anything. Make them work for you as you will get more out of it.
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if there was room for another God, and Almighty was ok with it, He would pick me because I'm just that darn good

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